There are good and bad qualities of a person. And then there is personality.

You should encourage good qualities and discourage bad qualities. Only the reaction helps balance out the attitude.

But personality is a different matter. It’s neither good or bad, only self-defining. And it’s these qualities of a person that you should allow and even delight in.

Find the beauty in everyone. It is hidden in their personality.

What you can do to indulge them is to be curious about it, asking questions with a positive attitude. Let them know it’s ok and even good to manifest their inner selves with other people.

The more we suppress people’s souls, the less soul there is in the world itself. And when the soul is sick or dying, happiness, joy, peace, community, all these beautiful values are swept away.

Be open about who you are and invite others to do the same.